Most of us have stuff that has been passed on by family members – whether still living or long departed. At this time of year, some of us also have gifts from family and friends. Vases, books, pictures… Many of these are not things we would have chosen – so the question is always – what to do with them?
Firstly – if you have an abundance of these things, sort them out. Any that you don’t like and don’t feel attached to – don’t keep! I’m sure even your relative or friend would agree…. (not keeping the item doesn’t mean that you love that person any less)
Secondly take those that have sentimental meaning, but not much aesthetic value and find a treasure box in which to store them. I have a large antique trunk that holds all sentimental items (including the man’s old rugby socks – for reasons best known to him – but better in the trunk than on the bedroom floor, I say).
Then you can have fun creating vignettes with those items remaining….
An old embossed leather case, studded with gold is rich with texture, history and memories. And…
opens to reveal a gold watch, engraved with family initials, nestling in ancient tissue.
An antique game of Boston Whist still contains its markers in mother-of-pearl and tortoiseshell.
A fabulous antique painting of an ancestor (on the man’s side – and yes – there is a family resemblance, although (thankfully) no similar beard).
Even if you don’t have the luxury of paintings – old photos are lovely – like this evocative wartime shot.
A tiny tortoiseshell card case, with a stunning mother-of-pearl design is better displayed than hidden away in a drawer…
Make sure you group items together rather than scattering them evenly throughout the house, as mentioned here.
Love this post–
My generation’s parents and their parents went through the great depression and saved EVERYTHING! Now as they move on, middle-aged daughters like me have to sort though it all–a huge job. Thanks for the wonderful advice. The treasure chest is a great idea. I’m going to steal it. Enjoy your blog. Well done.